Depression is a mood disorder that causes a
persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest. It is also known as major
depression or clinical depression, it affects how you feel, think and behave
and can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problem. Basically people
with depression find it hard to go about their day-to-day activities and may
also feel that life is not worth living. Feeling down sometimes is part of life
but when emptiness and despair take hold and won’t go away that’s depression.
Depression is a common but serious illness; it prevents people from functioning
normally.
Causes
The exact cause of depression is unknown
but somethings are associated with its development. Certainly, depression does
not result from a single event but from a combination of recent events and
other personal factors. Depression is caused by a combination of genetic,
biological, environmental and psychological factors. The parts of the brain
involved in mood, thinking, sleep, appetite and behaviour of depressed people
appear different. But these images do not reveal why depression occurs, they
also cannot be used to diagnose depression.
Some types of depression tend to run in the
family but depression can occur without family histories of depression too.
Trauma, loss of loved one, a difficult relationship or a stressful situation
may trigger a depressive situation. There are some continuous difficulties that
can cause depression in people’s life. Long term unemployment, an abusive or
uncaring relationship, long term loneliness, prolonged exposure to stress at
work.
Some people are depressed because of their
personality, particularly if they tendency to worry a lot, have low self-esteem
or are sensitive to personality criticism. Long term management of illness and
chronic pain can bring about depression. Changes in the brain can cause
depression. Changes to stress hormone levels have been found in people with
depression.
People are different and it’s often a
combination of factors that can contribute to a person developing depression. It’s
important to note that you can’t always identify the cause of depression or
change difficult circumstances. The most important thing is to recognise the
signs and symptoms and seek help.
Sign and symptoms of depression are:
A constant feeling of sadness, anxiety and emptiness.
A constant feeling of sadness, anxiety and emptiness.
The person feels hopeless
Individuals can feel restless
The depressed may experience irritability
Lack of interest in activities
Level of energy feels lower
Sleep patterns are disturbed
Suicide attempts
Overreacting and loss of appetite
Lack of concentration
Complain of aches, pains and headache.
These problems do not get better with treatment.
How stress is related
Depression does not have one cause, it
seems to arise as a consequence of several factors, one of which is stress.
Stress is a normal psychological and physical reaction to positive or negative
situations in life, what’s important is how to deal with it. If you have
problem coping, chronic stress can wear you down and overwhelm you. Stress has
direct effect on mood, when people experience stress; they often stop doing
some of the healthy strategies that usually keep their mood on track.
The connection between stress and
depression is complex and circular. People who are stressed often ignore
healthy lifestyle practices. They may smoke or drink than normal and neglect
regular exercise. Stress leads to behaviours and patterns that in turn can lead
to a chronic stress burden and increase the risk of depression.
Ways to ease stress and come out of depression
Become aware of what healthy coping
strategies are important for maintaining your mood but tend to go out the
window when you are stressed
Identify early warning signs that are signal
that you need to make some changes such as noticing yourself getting irritable
at work or making repeated mistakes due to lack of concentration
Make a short list of things you could do
when you notice the early warning signs that is in response to noticing stress,
you can start scheduling catch ups with friends immediately after work so that
you can leave work early.
Identify barriers to being able to
implement your ideas when you are under stress. What could you do to overcome
those barriers? For example ‘if i don’t have money to go to dinner, I could
arrange to meet friends for coffee’
Your relationship is an important resource.
What can you do to avoid straining them when you are stressed? Simple things
can help e.g. making sure you say something positive before you say something
negative when you see your partner at the end of the day.
Having a therapist you can touch base with
when your mood starts to go downhill can also help if your partner sometimes
feels like they are the only one supporting you. If you book a booster session
with your therapist, consider having your partner accompany you to the session
so your therapist can get your partner’s perspective.
Are women more depressed than men?
Depression is not “one size fits all”,
particularly when it comes to gender so depression is as twice as common in
women than men. Until puberty male and female develop depression with about the
same frequency. Things begin to shift between the ages of eleven and thirteen.
Depression may strike at any time but women
appear to particularly vulnerable during their child bearing years. Women are
at highest risk for depression during pregnancy and after delivery. There are
various factors that cause depression in women; there are biological and
hormonal causes such as: premenstrual problems, pregnancy and infertility, postpartum
depression, perimenopause and menopause, health problems.
There are also psychological causes such as
focusing on negative feelings, overwhelming stress at work, school or home,
body image issues.
And also, social causes such as marital or
relationship problems, family responsibilities, experiencing discrimination at
work , loosing or changing work, retirement, persistent financial problem,
death of a loved one.
But for men they believe they have to be
very strong and in control of their emotions at all times. When men feel
hopeless, helpless or overwhelmed by despair they tend to deny it or cover it
up by drinking too much, behaving reckless or exploding with anger .But
depression in men is a common condition and it is often overlooked as many of
them find it difficult to talk about their feelings. Instead, most men tend to
focus on the physical symptoms that often accompany depression such as back
pain, headaches, sleep issues or sexual problems. The causes of depression in
men is almost the same as women, the difference comes in the way they express
their depression.
Women react more to life changing and
potentially stressful transforming events; during the year a woman pursues her
education, career, marriage, childbearing and child rearing. In addition, women
experience more stressful life event and have greater sensitivity to them than
men.
Women use a more emotion-focused,
ruminative coping style, mulling their problems over in their mind while men
use a more problem focused, distracting coping style to help them forget their
troubles. The coping style contributes more to women’s greater vulnerability to
depression.
By:Ajibola Brymoh
3 comments:
Depression could be awful...
Well said....Nice piece.
yes o this is well said cos i know of someone who is depressed and her mood is always on and off terribly..don't think she sees it as a problem but its a very big problem ..and i don't pray to have a wife like that
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